The choice to be loved

It just happens - one suddenly wakes up and realizes that games are of no interest any longer when it comes to relations with the opposite sex. Or meets somebody and realizes the same. Loving and yearning for somebody's attention and touch is important emotion for our being human, for our motivation to go on... but being loved and cared about is as important for our overall balance. And I dare say this applies both for men and women.
Is it about selfishness? Hell, no! It's about realizing that we are valuable, it's about somebody showing us we're valuable by gentle unexpected care shown in surprising ways and situations. It's about being happy and calm, it's about being loved and choosing to be loved, and realizing that we deserve it. Also, it's about the surprise that arouses inside when we find out all these things in life and in our self...

I saw a quote today which I loved: the three C's in life - making the Choice to take the Chances in life, so that Change happens. If we don't allow it to happen, it may just wait at out doorstep for a while and then leave... Let the change happens and let the ones who really deserve it, love you.
Just like in this very much loved song by Alanis Morisette - 'You've already won me over, in spite of me"... :-)